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Today would have been my mother's 61st birthday...if she were still alive. Unfortunately, I know quite a few people who lost a parent early in life. Most of them feel sad on that parent's birthday or other holidays like Mother's Day or Father's Day. I don't.

There have been many times that I wished my mother were still alive. Some days have been harder than others. I really wish she could've met my husband and children. I wish she could've been there for my prom, graduation, debutante ball.

But today, instead of grieving over something that I have no control over, I spent the day at the zoo. I celebrated the 2nd birthday of a beautiful little boy named Boston. My children spent time with their friends learning about animals. The weather was perfect. And so was seeing the smiles on my children's faces.

There's really no point lamenting over what could have been when you can enjoy what's right in front of you.

Comments

Tanashia said…
Bridgette,
I like your perspective. My mom passed away six yrs ago and I always feel down around her birthday and holidays. I've carried alot of resentment that my children will never know her. I appreciate your thought and think I will try to remember it when my mood is creeping down. Tanashia
TERA said…
Only God can give you the peace that you have with your mothers death. It is truly a blessing when you allow him to take complete control.
Anonymous said…
What a wonderful perspective.


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