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In Memory...

Staff Sergeant Javares Washington was killed in Kuwait. He was my cousin. My cousin died yesterday...in Kuwait...and I'm so very sad. I feel like I can't breathe. My heart is broken. We grew up like siblings. His mom had him at a very young age. She wasn't ready to take care of him. So, he lived with us for years. He was like my brother. And now, I'm in shock. I'm going to miss him so much.



The military has only said he was in a government vehicle on patrol and it flipped over. We don't know what caused the flip or anything. I want to go home.



He was married and had two children. His son, Jayden, is 6 years old and looks just like him. His daughter, Tristin, is 9 months old. My heart is broken.

Comments

CreoleInDC said…
I hated reading this.

My condolences for your loss. I feel inadequate to say anything more.

If you need me...I'm here.

Love,

Monnie
My condolences for your loss. I will keep you and your family in prayer.

I'm visiting via Monnie.
AR Gal said…
My prayers go out to your family during this time.
Anonymous said…
I came here from Monnie's blog. I don't know you, but my prayers are with his family, and yours.
~Shanda
Anonymous said…
My prayers go out to you and your family. I am sorry to hear about the passing of your cousin.
*Tanyetta* said…
This is so sad. I am so sad for you and your family. This is horrible, horrible, horrible. Looking at these photos of this man with his kids clearly has broken my heart.
Thank you all. Your kind words mean a lot right now.
~ Bridgette
Anonymous said…
Just came over from Monnie's site. I am truly sorry for you and your family's loss. My sincerest condolences to you.
Nerd Girl said…
I'm sorry for your loss and will keep you all in my prayers. I hope that you are able to find some measure of comfort in the upcoming days. (via Monnie)
1969 said…
I am so sorry to hear this.My thoughts are with you and your family right now.
Hostess said…
Oh my. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anonymous said…
Here via Monica...I'm sorry for your loss and your pain. May God bless and comfort you and your family.
Fergie said…
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of your cousin and celebrate his remarkable life.
TNDRHRT said…
All my love and prayers even though I don't know you and your family. My heart hurts for you.
Anonymous said…
My condolences to you and your family!
Sissy said…
I'm sorry for your loss, you're in my prayers.
Anonymous said…
My condolences go out to you and your family. May God comfort you all through this time of bereavement. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. (via CreoleInDC blog)
Anonymous said…
Here by way of CreoleinDC. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Anonymous said…
I just read about you on CreoleinDC's blog, and I just wanted to offer my condolences.

Andree
Anonymous said…
Bridge, I am so sorry to hear about your cousin. I know you wish you were home to be there for his family. My prayers go out to you and his family.
Keisha
Anonymous said…
I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin.

I wish you were closer to your extended family at this time.

I wish you were closer to us at this time.

My prayers are with you.

Ayana
Anonymous said…
Bridge, I'm sorry to hear about your cousin. You know you guys are in our prayers. It may not mean much now, but if you look on the brighter side...if all goes according to plan, in one more month you all will be HOME!! You say it all the time, God is always there. Trust HIM!!

Nazah
Mrs. Glenn said…
Hey Bridge, I know I haven't written in a while, but I do read your stuff. I am sooo sorry to hear about your cousin. I know you and your family must feel so helpless because he was away fighting in a senseless war. Please know that my prayers are with you too, and I love you. God be with you in this time. Kisses,

Nika
Tiffany said…
I am so sorry to hear about your cousin jay. I remember him from back in the day in pensacola. He was a really nice guy back then and it's good to see that he was such a good father and a nice guy now. I will keep you, his mother sister and whole family in my prayers. At least there is a peaceful thought in knowing he is with the Lord.
May His Love comfort you,
Tiffany
Anonymous said…
Bridge, I'm so sorry to hear about your cousin. Remember that God is wise to make a mistake and He'll sustain you and your family through this trying time. My prayers are with you all
Lonna
Anonymous said…
May God continue to comfort and protect you and your family. God is in charge. Trust Him. We love you all and look forward to seeing you all soon. It was wonderful talking with you while you were in Florida.

Red

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