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We Made It!!!

The kids and I made it to Florida safely. The flight was no joke but they did as well as I could have ever expected.

It's been wonderful to see all of my family but I really miss Javares. His funeral was today and I said a little something. I wanted to both honor his memory and comfort my family. Several people said I did a good job and they enjoyed what I had to say. So, I guess I can consider it a success. I even made the news! But the highlight of the funeral service was when his 6 year old son, Jayden, reflected on his father. He said: "He loved me, he hugged me every time he saw me and I was just happy to see him. And it looks like it's the last time i'm gonna see him. But I just remember, I'm just gonna see him in heaven." You all know this brought a standing ovation. This little boy showed such poise and maturity. Absolutely awesome! I promised his mother that I would keep in touch with them. Jayden told me he is now my favorite cousin since his father is no longer alive. Is that precious or what?

Jay wanted to be cremated so tomorrow we have to go to the military cemetary for the committal ceremony which includes the 21 gun salute and presentation of the flags.

I'm still somewhat in shock. As we were all gathered at my aunt's house I kept expecting him to walk through the door. I really didn't expect to react so emotionally. This has really shaken me.

Comments

Anonymous said…
I'm glad you all made it there safely and you were able to get through your presentation. See I told you talking would comfort your family. And what your new favorite cousin said would have brought tears to my eyes.
Keisha
10:51 AM
Anonymous said…
Hey Bridg,

I am sorry to hear of your loss. I am just now reading your blog so did not know what was going on. I am glad that everything went okay for you and your family. I pray that all is well. Take care.

Deidra
10:55 AM
Anonymous said…
Hey Bridgette,

Girl, I am at the computer crying at work. The comment you made about his son really touched me. I am happy that you had a chance to go and be with your family at this time. Enjoy this time and stay focused on the good memories. I know this appears to be something bad but God always has a bigger plan. Love ya,

Charissa
11:53 AM
1969 said…
I am so glad you made it safely. Again, my condolences on your loss.
8:16 PM
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