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The 3rd Child

In case you didn't know, I am absolutely thrilled that my third child is another girl. Danae and I prayed for a girl and God granted our request. I wouldn't have been disappointed if the baby was a boy but I am happy with the outcome. I don't really know why though. While we were getting the ultrasound, Dwayne and the tech both laughed at me. Why? Because I was just as excited as if it were my first baby. I oohed when she waved her little hand and smiled the entire way through. The tech said most moms aren't as excited after the first baby. But for me, it's as if she's my first. Although I have been a mom for a few years now, I've never been HER mom. Even though I have experience with a daughter, this is a different child who will have a different personality. I can't wait to meet her. I love children in general and have a deeper love for my own babies. Now, I look forward to seeing her and holding her and smelling her. I love that newborn baby smell. I look forward to the sleepless nights and horribly sore boobs. I look forward to getting to know her likes and dislikes, to teaching and loving her, to introducing her to this world, and to prepare her for heaven. In short, I can't wait.

If only I didn't have to go through the delivery part. A lot of moms say you don't remember the pain of childbirth. And, that's true to some extent. I can't really remember what it felt like but I do remember it hurt although obviously not enough for me to get an epidural. I also remember that it was a very different feeling each child and I only hope this is a little easier for me. I'm sure it'll be quicker. Danae was born 4 1/2 hours after we got to the hospital, Brayden came in 2 hours. My doctor told me this time I should head to the hospital after my first contraction to avoid a delivery on the freeway. The good thing about this type of pain is that the prize at the end is the best thing you can ever hope for.

Comments

bklynq said…
Some of the things you said have me just a little frightened, but ultimately I am soooo excited to be a mother for the first time. All of the planning is fun and I can't wait to see what she looks like and her personality like you said.
TERA said…
I remember my ultrasound and I had all the same feelings. I was super excited and had the same tears of joy that I had when I was pregnant with my first. There is no child like your own and there is nothing like being a mother. This journey for me has been the best ever!
Latanya
Anonymous said…
I AM JUST AS EXCITED AS YOU ARE ABOUT YOUR KIDS. ONE DAY I WILL BE ABLE TO SHARE MY EPERIENCE WITH YOU ALL.

JENISE
Anonymous said…
That was a great post! It's great that you view each child as special and unique. Can't wait to meet her either!

Trinimerican
Anonymous said…
Motherhood is definitely one of the best experiences in my life. I am so glad for the two children we have, which one of them came 2 weeks ago.

My heart goes out to those mothers who endure the 9 months, labor and delivery and end up with a still birth or the baby dies shortly thereafter. We are truly blessed to have healthy children and to be alive to enjoy them.

Red

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